Turns out Emily ratajowksi.is a stupid bitch too. Fuck
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Date: October 26th, 2020 9:07 PM Author: ,.,...,..,.,.,;:,.:,.,.,::,..,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. WHEN MY HUSBAND AND I tell friends that I’m pregnant, their first question after “Congratulations” is almost always “Do you know what you want?” We like to respond that we won’t know the gender until our child is 18 and that they’ll let us know then. Everyone laughs at this. There is a truth to our line, though, one that hints at possibilities that are much more complex than whatever genitalia our child might be born with: the truth that we ultimately have no idea who—rather than what—is growing inside my belly. Who will this person be? What kind of person will we become parents to? How will they change our lives and who we are? This is a wondrous and terrifying concept, one that renders us both helpless and humbled. I like the idea of forcing as few gender stereotypes on my child as possible. But no matter how progressive I may hope to be, I understand the desire to know the gender of our fetus; it feels like the first real opportunity to glimpse who they might be. As my body changes in bizarre and unfamiliar ways, it’s comforting to obtain any information that might make what’s coming feel more real.
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Date: October 26th, 2020 9:08 PM Author: """"""""' shes a jew, no shit shes dumb af (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4662704&forum_id=2#41193593) |
Date: October 26th, 2020 9:09 PM Author: ..,.,.,,,.,.,.,.,.,....,,,,..,.,.,., Ratajkowski describes her mother as a "feminist and intellectual".[13] The family lived in West Kensington and Bloomsbury[14] before settling in San Diego, California, when Ratajkowski was five.[8] She was raised primarily in nearby Encinitas.[15] Balgley formerly taught at California Polytechnic State University,[15] and as of 2011, teaches at San Diego Jewish Academy.[6] Ratajkowski is of English, Irish, Polish, German, and Jewish descent.[16][10] Her father was raised Roman Catholic, whereas her mother was raised Jewish.[6] |
Date: October 26th, 2020 9:11 PM Author: '"'''"''"''" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4662704&forum_id=2#41193612) |
Date: October 26th, 2020 9:09 PM Author: ,.,...,..,.,.,;:,.:,.,.,::,..,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. I’m scared of having a son too, although not in the same way. I’ve known far too many white men who move through the world unaware of their privilege, and I’ve been traumatized by many of my experiences with them. And boys too; it’s shocking to realize how early young boys gain a sense of entitlement—to girls’ bodies and to the world in general. I’m not scared of raising a “bad guy,” as many of the men I’ve known who abuse their power do so unintentionally. But I’m terrified of inadvertently cultivating the carelessness and the lack of awareness that are so convenient for men. It feels much more daunting to create an understanding of privilege in a child than to teach simple black-and-white morality. How do I raise a child who learns to like themself while also teaching them about their position of power in the world? “I’m scared of having a son too, although not in the same way. I’ve known far too many white men who move through the world unaware of their privilege” My friend who is the mother to a three-year-old boy tells me that she didn’t think she cared about gender until her doctor broke the news that she was having a son. She burst into tears in her office. “And then I continued to cry for a whole month,” she says matter-of-factly. After a difficult birth experience, she developed postpartum depression and decided that she resented her husband more than she’d ever imagined possible. She told me she particularly hated—and she made an actual, physical list that she kept in her journal, editing it daily—how peacefully he slept. “There is nothing worse than the undisturbed sleep of a white man in a patriarchal world.” She shakes her head. “It was hard to come to terms with the fact that I was bringing yet another white man into the world. But now I adore him and can’t imagine it any other way.” She also eventually learned to love her husband again. The sound of his perfect sleep next to her at night is now tolerable. |
Date: October 26th, 2020 9:11 PM Author: ..,.,.,,,.,.,.,.,.,....,,,,..,.,.,., postpartum is only one form of mental illness at play there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4662704&forum_id=2#41193613) |
Date: October 26th, 2020 9:11 PM Author: """"""""' not white (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4662704&forum_id=2#41193614) |
Date: October 26th, 2020 9:10 PM Author: DrakeMallard Honestly, I thought a chick most famous for standing around hot and naked in a 2013 Robin Thicke music video would be extremely intelligent (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4662704&forum_id=2#41193606) |
Date: October 26th, 2020 9:11 PM Author: geno (fonzie) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4662704&forum_id=2#41193615) |
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