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Date: January 8th, 2022 11:44 PM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
Am the nowag from this thread: https://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4992580&mc=154&forum_id=2I thought my dating life was shit. The few Asian American guys I know IRL have similar dating lives to me. No one is happy. But I realize after reading about Lord Simp's Korean girl misadventures and SAD's life story that I probably had a decent dating life for a nowag. SAD/Simp sound like they're probably in the top 10% of Asian male economic outcomes as well. So I can only imagine the shitshow that dating is for the average Asian American dude. It's basically close to being castrated by society. I think xo's alpha as fuck white blos have no idea how bad we have it here. I have only begun to become conscious of this on a wider scale from reading xo and tommy's rage against the USA.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43752982) |
Date: January 8th, 2022 11:46 PM
Author: Camgirl Connoisseur
What about those Cali azn gangs that are filled with tatted up Lao and Hmong dudes and such? I bet they get mad pussy. The problem isn't being NOWAG the problem is not being chad enough.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QVc4J1c-BvM
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43752986) |
Date: January 8th, 2022 11:52 PM
Author: the poaster cinematic universe
Dude, we know how bad you have itJust go back to Asia and date and marry Asian women. You are NEVER going to be romantically successful in white countries as an Asian male
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753012) |
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Date: January 8th, 2022 11:58 PM
Author: the poaster cinematic universe
What? Dude in Europe the white guys are noticeably taller and more handsome than the white guys in the USA. I'm sure it's even worse there for azn dudesI mean I know a bunch of different Asian guys with white gfs/wives in the USA. It's possible, you're just always going to be at a huge disadvantage Also I'm pretty sure most Asian guys want Asian girls as mates, even if they might want white girls as sex partners. Even less of them in Europe than in America
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753040) |
Date: January 8th, 2022 11:57 PM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
you're likely an over-the-hill (old) aspie with no social circle, no personality, and no confidence.obviously you're an incel. stop blaming your race. millions of asian american men are doing just fine. if you were white, you'd do a little bit better, but still suck ass at life because you're a loser, full stop.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753035) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:02 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
you're precisely the kind of loser who self-deported due to his noxious personality and is never happy anywhere, no matter where you go, because ultimately you can't escape yourself.sit the fuck down you annoying loser.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753053) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:07 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
Yeah, I can def see it in people I know. The deadness of emotion is what makes us good grunts. It's similar to the ability of chinese deliverymen being able to work 16 hour days to no end without complaint.Out of the Asian guys I know, everyone's dating lives suck. But no one seems to complain and it's almost a faux pas to even bring this shit up socially. One of my friends was shocked to learn that dating sucked for me. He assumed just by virtue of me being able to date women of ok attractiveness at all, I was happy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753066) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 2:42 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
I think dating in general has gotten shitty in America for a straight male.However, there's def a difference amongst racial lines from the white (even black/hispanic) guys I know. The guys with a similar background to me from different races def have it much easier to find more quality girls. It would take a lot of work and a bit of luck for me to do the same as they are. Also I didn't mention it but I'm 5'10", average nowag who does work out several times a week (i.e., I'm not a fucking kpop star but I'm also not a short-mo)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753355) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 2:55 AM
Author: Lord High Everything Else
I agree with your sentiment about dating.I think it's easy to overestimate the number of chads on this board. Sure chads have their pick of pussy, but for nonchad whites, it might not be that much better than your situation. You're fairly tall for an azn, with very good career, $$$, pedigree. I think your outcome is really good (and not "just for an asian", again, compare with ppl like TSINAH). You don't need to find many quality girls, just one you would want to settle down with. MFH seems like hell for dating. I think you would like SF a lot more. Firing up CMB, there are a lot of pretty azn girls who would be looking for a guy like you. Seriously, try moving out to SF before you move to Asia. You might find it better there.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753372) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 3:48 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
If it wasn't for my harsh Azn upbringing and xo it would be easy to be a type of Azn guy (maybe like wangfei) who thinks they're the shit. Relatively, i guess my life is okay compared to other Asian American guys but compared to Asia guys its likely not great, objectively.I still have plenty of apps. CMB is good for Azn shrews looking to settle down. Hinge not bad. Bumble OK for conversion rate. Tinder is meh (banged a wgwag 4 on it though who was into anime). As an aside, Man Francisco? I always thought it was one of the worst places for dating due to the ridiculous tech money and gender imbalance. I thought conventional wisdom was that NYC dating >> other big coastal cities
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753434) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:09 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
not everyone is a whiny depressed loser like youactual asians (living in asia) go through much harder hardships than not getting tinder dates
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753068) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:35 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
it's fucking hilarious how you make histrionic claims like "the house is on fire" while making 200k+/year, with complete financial and physical safety, in the freest and most prosperous country in the world, all because you can't get your dick wet with hot women, as you think you deserve.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753152)
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:45 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
Lots of claims there I dont think are accurate."complete financial and physical safety". I'm in MFH, which is becoming more dangerous (so no complete financial and physical safety). I work in law, subject to a lot of market forces, many of which are arbitrary and could lead to me being Latham-ed through no fault of my own. "Freest and most prosperous country". Not sure about this -> in my short trips to Asia, the quality of life looks really good for even the average citizen. "Dick wet with hot women as I think I deserve" -> I laughed at this. I'm not looking to be Hugh Heffner or have a chad lifestyle. I'm looking for something pretty basic. I'm not on SAD's level yet but I am looking for a relationship hopefully leading to marriage; however, marriage seems like a really bad deal with all the girls I meet.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753173) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:07 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
man stfu, you're entitled and spoiled beyond belief. the median asian person is still a factory worker slave - corporate slave at best.and oh yeah you don't expect to be hugh hefner - you just identify yourself with SAD, who notoriously has slept with 300+ escorts and posts obsessively about random asian women online for years. we all know what this is about. you feel entitled to pussy, but you're a limp wrist loser who would be a limp wrist loser on either continent.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753222) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:14 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
How can I not identify with him? He's an Asian American guy who comes from a similar educational/social background who poasts on xo.I've never seen an escort or have been tempted to but I identify with his dating struggles. It's been shit. Also whether I like it or not this guy's plight is something similar to what a lot of Asian Americans like me face. He might be a loser but I'm no better than him. Thinking I'm better than him and settling for some domineering shrew makes me part of the problem. I know assholes like this too (i.e., Asian American guys who deny there's a problem at all because theyre ok). I'm beginning to suspect that Asian Americans are an incredibly demoralized, cucked, and dispirited subgroup. It doesn't matter if we have material wealth above that of a factory worker. Having a wife + family has traditionally been the bedrock of Asian culture. It has gotten us through the hard parts. I know my life is privileged and I dont have it as bad as a Foxconn iPhone worker; but thats the point, without a wife/family I can believe in, there's nothing to work towards and no future to have. At least the factory slave likely has a wife/family he believes in. It doesn't matter if I'm a billionaire if my personal life is meaningless.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753231) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:18 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
lol yeah just ignore the part where people (like both me, and your parents) tell you repeatedly that millions of asian men, in fact, in asia, marry golddiggers all the time! and, on top of that, have crushing work conditions and financial obligations that you couldn't imagine.but keep identifying with sexpests/sexpats like SAD/TT. surely your race is the reason you're single at 35-40.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753238) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:31 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
lol at you just grasping at straws now, now that your woe-is-me racial sob story got blown the fuck out.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753264) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:33 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
youre quite hostile.to be charitable to your viewpoint, i guess i'm bitching but if xo isn't the forum to talk about such things, what is? that said, if you dont mind, what is your background? tommy seems to think you're an Asian-American woman. i have to admit you sound like one. you seem convinced that Asian Americans have it much better, what makes you believe this? is it just the economic factors (i.e., not being a factory worker)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753269) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:13 AM
Author: AZNgirl granting immediate entry to Djokovic
ljl why do u pretend everyone is a furking rice farmer in asia?and even if they were rice farmers they prob furk more than some beta bitch asian amerikkkan dorks in vietnam date hawt as furk bitches
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753077) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:38 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
shut up clownyou're an unwanted sexpest who isn't even asian. do not talk in threads where actual asians are involved.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753159) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:25 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
SAD's stories was part of the motivation to write this thread. If you were my friend in real life, I think I would get pissed off hearing how bad things were and how passive you were in response. If its that bad radical changes are in order.My friends and I dont really talk about how bad it is IRL re: dating. So coming to this realization has taken time. The lack of self-respect and the tone of despondency in SAD's dating threads has really made me realize that as a group, we nowags are really retarded. The house is on fire and yet we keep trudging along doing the same dumb things.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753114) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:34 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
I'm open to criticism. And believe me, I have plenty of self-loathing so you can pile it on.At the same time, yes, I am looking for a wife. However, no one I've met is wife material in terms of what I'm looking for. As I've mentioned in other threads its all washed up Asian American shrews who see me as a beta provider. This is coming from a beta lolyer who puts up with a ton of shit. So I dont think I'm particularly picky. As an example, the Asian American girls I dated used woke language to harangue me when they were unhappy (like one harassed me and told me I was "disrespecting her" etc when I tried to ghost her). I also got a sense that they were extremely materialistic and career oriented. Until I made biglaw partner money, they wouldn't be happy. They also tended to spend a lot of money (I'm a frugal guy). Quite a few of them also had mental issues/had a huge rap sheet of fucking white guys, which I didn't like. The fobs I met/dated were better. But even then, they usually learned enough here to be annoying/try to dominate me. If I went to Asia I'd try to date as simple and uneducated women as possible if I were looking for a wife. I wouldn't be looking to find a best friend for life in a wife. Just someone who would be a good mom and loyal to me. In that case I believe uneducated fob peasant definitely beats out Asian American shrew.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753145) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:36 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
you're a dumb shit.women in asia are far more materialistic and demanding.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753157) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:40 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:.,.:,...,::,....;:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
listen, you would be a loser if you were born in asia too. your parents know this. that's why they warn you. don't let anyone like TT (who isn't even asian) dissuade you otherwise.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753163) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:49 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
Not sure about this.My parents are proud of my accomplishments here (which are however, rightfully lulzy to xo) and tell me I'd be throwing it away by leaving to Asia. I grinded for almost all of my life so far without many complaints. I even was one of the straight male nowags who won the academic game despite academia telling us Azns to fuck off. However, the way I see it, even if I were to win the career game, what would be the point if I were stuck with a wife that I don't like? It'd just be grinding away to no end. Also just one data point: on paper I'm far more successful than most of my male relatives in Asia. They seem to be doing better than me, or most Asian American guys I know, in the woman dept.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753184) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 2:17 AM
Author: Lord High Everything Else
totally agree with your assessment of the women there.OP, consider moving to the west coast, far more laid back azns there. I think you'd be a catch. You'd have to tone down the resentment a bit though, as that could be off-putting. But I get you, it's a bit frustrating when you see 8/9 azn girls going for some ugly white guy. But these are the striver chicks you wouldn't want to be with anyway. I wouldn't necessarily call them race traitors, but they probably have a bit of self-loathing going on.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753332) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 12:52 AM
Author: Raping Raping Terry Gross
> Quite a few of them also had mental issues/had a huge rap sheet of fucking white guys, which I didn't like.lmao, avoid those obviously. But I get the impression that you're drawing the girls you're complaining about because a beta provider is how you also see yourself. Seems like you're your academic/professional background as a crutch in dating, or at least disclosing it too early and openly. Well yeah, you're going to match with shrews. Not saying this is what you should do, but I took a blue collar approach to dating. I intentionally kept my fairly elite academic pedigree vague and I was pretty upfront early on with my idiosyncracies and crassness. I only put my best foot forward once I was seriously involved. Marriage has its challenges but I can say I found a ride or die wife. And the other guy is right. There are exceptions, but East Asians on average are (far) more materialistic than Americans.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753197) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:00 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
I'm kind of recent to xo so I don't know your backstory. How is your wife ride or die? Is she Asian-American? How'd you find her, what was her background etc (at least with what youre cool with disclosing here)The career thing comes up pretty early in dating. At least in NYC and amongst the 30s career woman crowd. I try not to bring up work (hate talking about it anyhow) or anything like that anyhow. However, I could sense that all the women I met were trying to gauge my social status when they met me, even when I didn't disclose job/background. Also to qualify the rap sheet/mental issue thing too. I tried to avoid these types. In the very beginning they seemed just like normal people. However, when dating more, craziness/bad history would come out. A case in point is an Asian American girl who told me she was conservative, shot guns, and voted Republican. Relationship with her was not much different from the liberal Asians.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753216) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:11 AM
Author: Raping Raping Terry Gross
Wife and I are both Korean 1.5 gen, met through a mutual friend. Supported me through a long period of unemployment without complaint. We have a fairly defined division of labor. She cooks, I take out trash and do maintenance. Speaking of how we met, mfh is probably the worst location to find what you're looking for in a wife. Maybe your friends in other parts of the country can introduce you to girls.> However, I could sense that all the women I met were trying to gauge my social status when they met me, even when I didn't disclose job/background. Consider not giving them what they want. You can just tell them you're a pornographer or something initially.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753227) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 1:45 AM
Author: Raping Raping Terry Gross
I think 2nd gens are too far gone, especially if they grew up in majority white areas. As a generalization, I'd prefer fobs over them.I think Asians from professional class households in general are nagged and henpecked from an early age and become compliant pussies. This really thwarts independence and developing into a man. I don't think Asian Americans are unique in that regard. The difference is that Asians are at least on their own turf without feeling like second class citizens, which gives them more self-assurance. Korean guy I met recently has a smoke show wife; he'd never have been able to pull her if they grew up here. Now that I have a kid, I've become increasingly sensitive to all the bs that living here involves. Some of the reasons that Asian guys have low sexual market value are justified, as alluded to above, but others that make Asian Americans invisible are absolute bullshit, such as all the stuff that is done to expiate white guilt. You can't even mention in this country that MLK plagiarized his dissertation. American culture is pure shit, and I'm seriously considering moving back for the sake of my kid.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753285) |
Date: January 9th, 2022 1:18 AM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,
go back to home asian country; problem solvedas a white american, the US is my home country my ancestors first came here in the 1600s for me there's nowhere to go--you can go back to your homogenous high IQ homeland that's on the global rise be happy
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753239) |
Date: January 9th, 2022 1:54 AM
Author: Lord High Everything Else
Glad to get a shout out, but I don't want you to get discouraged on my account. I wouldn't say my life trajectory is typical. I was kinda late to the dating scene. So I'm (clearly) very awkward and inexperienced.I'm also probably too picky when it comes to looks. I've had a fair share of good dates, but wasn't really interested in them, so didn't pursue. From what I've gathered from your threads though, your dating life seems pretty good. You're well established in your career and you are getting dates with pretty girls. I wouldn't move to Asia if I were in your shoes. If you're like me, culturally we're too American to fit in in Asia. Plus my (asian language) skills would place me in the retard category if I moved to Asia. You shouldn't let the woe is me, I'm not white get to you. I think I got over that phase back in middle school, but being white isn't necessarily all it's chalked up to be. Sure, maybe dating would be better if we were 6'3 chads, but there are lots of white people I definitely wouldn't trade places with. (You can imagine the poasters I would be referring to here. Won't mention them by name.) Overall, I'm fairly happy with my life. I think after some self-reflection, I wouldn't mind trying to find and settle down with a nice and pretty asian-american woman, even if they are a bit of a striver. I know I won't get the tinder success stories people mention here, getting laid on first dates, etc., but some of these tinder conquests aren't that pretty. I think the way to go if you want to sleep with women is just to pay--HVAC has some really pretty asian girls he's poasted. In summary, maybe our one night stand game isn't as great as chad's, but I think we have a better shot at forming meaningful relationships with azn-american women/fob, but did their UG here. Some of my distant relatives/not super close friends have really wholesome and beautiful families, which is probably more common than chad's outcome.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753304) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 2:15 AM
Author: Now turn around and get in pile driver (white power trash valet, llc)
I appreciate the kind wordsSeriously though the best part about whoremongering is that you reduce/eliminate the amount of power women have over you Once you realize you can do anything you want to a 25 year old Asian girl for $300, you don't sweat shrews. When guys say they want a relationship, it's usually because that's the only way they can get sex. I suppose there is some guys that get sex from 4 different girls for free every month, but that's not realistic even for attractive guys
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753329) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 2:59 AM
Author: Lord High Everything Else
If I had more money, I'd definitely do what HVAC does. then when I get bored, try to settle down with a respectable person.There are very few people here pulling in 7-9 appsluts. The pics I do see, most are very unappealing. HVAC, I noticed Daisy's webpage was down. Pity, since she moved to the top of my list over chubby korean girl. Though she's a bit shorter than I would like. Looking forward to my trip to Dallas next month. Gotta pick out an asian girl/plan ahead.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753381) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 2:23 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
Nice to hear from you. Btw I hope you bag that annoying Korean fob. Youre making a lot of mistakes (who doesnt) but at this point I think youre balls deep. It might be better for you to get to the fucking than bowing out at this point. Maybe just keep at it until you hit pussy then treat her like she deserves once you've made it in. Sometimes you have to go full retard.That said, I'm not discouraged on your account, I'm just musing over how shitty life is here for our kind. Wrt dating, I'm starting to think its a canary in the mine of how self-defeating life here is for straight Asian American dudes. Terry alluded to this in not wanting to raise kids here above and how 2nd gen Korean-Americans were too far gone. On an individual basis, I could be ignorantly "happy" with my life if I didn't think too hard or fight for something better. Like I said, I grinded most of my life without complaint. It's not as if life with the pick of the litter of Asian American shrews would be hell 24/7. It'd probably be 95% ok, and 5% bad/annoying. But this may not be a good thing. It's about achieving one's potential and pushing oneself. I dont want to settle for some cucked shit if I have the chance to do something else. Places like xo have been eye opening for examining my status as an Asian dude in the US critically. For instance, the sad thing is some of my friends (like my HS friends whose careers stagnated) looked up to me, thinking that I was perfectly happy and an example of what they could do if they just made more money/worked harder. If I wasn't honest and self critical, I would be part of the problem spreading BS. It would have been very easy and ego boosting to pretend like I had it figured out. But then I'd be like Boxer from Orwell's Animal Farm saying you just had to work harder/be cooler/date widely/etc. The problem I really believe is structural, not individual for us. I could find a fob here but what would be the point? Where would our kids end up? Would my sons/daughters face the same issues? Would they speak an Asian language well enough to go back if they wanted? They likely would face the same problems. This is the part of me that is looking to go to Asia, re-hookup to the motherland (or as xo calls it, our bughive), leave America, and not look back. That said, I'm pretty confident in my ability to find something job-wise if I had to slink back to the US in defeat, even if its a step down from my current career. What I can't get back though is my youth. I'm still single, fairly young enough where I have the ability to make the change. If I don't do it now, the golden handcuffs and inertia is only going to get worse. I'm willing to quit and be a "loser" overseas if that's what it takes to experience something new. As an aside, it's just kind of unfortunate that I'm coming to this realization during covid travel restrictions.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753335) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 2:45 AM
Author: Lord High Everything Else
I said I wouldn't use names, but fuck it. Would you seriously trade places with someone like TSINAH? Sure the US has its faults, and shitlib cancer is spreading, but I absolutely would not move to Asia.Take a good friend of mine. Chinese american, prestigious UG, met a very pretty and kind FOB but UG in US, and married her and moved to Shanghai. Her family is well off, so they have a nice flat. He has a very respectable career. But I don't think he's happy there. The culture is too materialistic. They have no passion or real interests. He speaks chinese like an 8 yo. He told me they went to Disneyland once, and he asked his wife in poor chinese what that one cartoon character was. And a nearby little girl looked at him like he was retarded. The only country I could see myself moving to is maybe Singapore. Far more western, and I suspect life there might not be too bad. The weather is awful though, and the country does has its own share of issues. I think it's important how you raise your kids. If you stay in the US, be the father figure you would want your daughter to marry. Don't raise her to go for some dorky whitey. I see same race asian families to be overall more cohesive and respectable than mixed ones. Ignore the haters who claim they trace their roots back to the mayflower. I like XO a lot for the political content and some of the board memes. But there aren't a lot of wholesome families here, so maybe this isn't the best place to get advice on raising a family.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753359) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 3:01 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
Not an xo expert - what's tsinah's story?I was always on board the "we're American can't go back to Asia" camp until recently. I guess what's changed my mind is seeing how bad things are here. Of course your point about language and culture is important. We'd be the rough equivalent of fobs there. At the same time there's some significant differences from our parents Kims Convenience generation: Language/Culture: I know your friend isn't as much a part of society as he wants due to language/culture but that's the price one pays for a lot of other advantages, like living in a homogenous society where your kids won't question their own self worth based on race. It's a trade off but a good life based on the right values increasingly seems stacked in favor of Asia. Maybe an aside, but God only knows what future indignities are waiting in the next several decades for America as well. I don't think the lib thing is going back in Pandora's box. Family: for fucking sure I wouldn't want to raise a family in America. Even expensive private schools have CRT and all sorts of other nonsense. The only acceptable alternative would be some conservative, likely 95%+ white place: but in a place like that my sons would be bullied and my daughters would be raised to want handsome. Time Running Out: I think America has a limited runway of cultural and hard power. We're on the decline. The best time to leave if one ever considers it might be now, while there's still some currency left.Even in law, I'm asking around and people are saying that any dork in biglaw could have lateraled to HK/SG 10 years ago but now they're asking for fluent Mandarin (i.e, native) speakers in addition to the standard credentials. I've been making inquiries and while it wasn't as great as it was before, an American education and background still has some cache overseas. If we became kind of an irrelevant country with a prestigious past (like Spain or France), there just wouldn't be anything overseas to take advantage of. I've been looking but I get the sense I can find a respectable job in a place like Taiwan, Singapore, HK, or SE Asia (China seems to be a black box).
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753383) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 3:18 AM
Author: Lord High Everything Else
XO scholarship seems to think most recent TSINAH might be a fake, but here's a thread from todayhttps://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003086&mc=60&forum_id=2#43749586 he's in his mid/late 30s I think. white, fat, bald(ing), 300k in debt, makes very little, maybe 60k. brags about living the life, yet begs for money here. lies about his dating life and his hot organic gfs. kinda sad in general. poasts good board content though. Ya, HK maybe 20 yrs ago maybe would have been a pretty cool place to live. Once the British were gone, the Chinese there were def top of the pecking order, still western culture. If you were ethnically chinese and spoke english, you'd be like a white chad in the US. These days, with mainland Chinese influence, probably not a great place to move to. But maybe this is another thing to point out. What seemed like a good place changed for the worse. You might think certain Asian countries are good, but think 20 yrs down the road. I don't think they'll be any better. Singapore might still be a good option, but I couldn't stomach the year round tropical heat. As bad as the US is getting, I don't think raising kids in Asia would be any better. The people are brainwashed there. Talked to an app chick and basically got really upset that I implied Taiwan wasn't part of China. Sure they are 180 on some social issues, but they are also authoritarian, and you would bring your children to an oppressive environment.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753400) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 3:14 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
Some of your criticism might be valid. But I didn't lack effort in my case.I treated dating in my heyday like a second job. I even downloaded this weird Chinese app called 2 red beans that opened up a bunch of fobs. I also did the NYC social circuit stuff of rock climbing, hiking, skiing, wine tasting. Like a true dorky *Beep Beep* autist I tried a ton of shit. I met and dated a fair # of women even as a Melvin. My criticism doesn't come from not having anyone or being in crushing loneliness, it comes from seeing what I can get and deciding its a bad deal. In fact I enjoy being alone more now than meeting girls and entertaining them with inane banter. In fact no matter how much a loser the guy is, I don't think any self-respecting male should take the deals that are offered by the shrews I met. This is why I think geography and American culture is the problem. It goes even more so for Asian American men because of our shitty social status in Western society. If you think white guys have it bad, I think Asian men in America are in the abyss: its amazing how humiliating and cucked many of my friends relationships are. If you think its just an individual issue, and the solution is just to be more chill and alpha, I would wager you're part of the problem.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753390) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 3:28 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
I grinded for most of my life with no complaint. Whatever I have done I dont think it entitles me to anything. It's why I said I would be happy with an Asian peasant if that works. I probably would have made a good black slave in Uncle Tom's Cabin.I've never let shit get to me for a long time until I started thinking about my other Azn bros and what we may have lost by our parents' coming to America. If Asia didn't exist I would just put up with this as reality and not make this thread. As pathetic as it is, sites like xo have changed my mind with regards to how I view society and life. They've been more eye opening than a lot of the discussions I have with people I interact with IRL. If there's an asian experience in america that is completely different I have no hesitation being open minded and changing myself to adapt to it. I just don't see it and you don't make an argument besides just an unsubstantiated assertion.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753412) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 4:03 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
nothing makes me happier than to think that one of my bros (especially a 5'9" taiwanese abc) was able to have a chill, fratty experience.but my aim is to point out reality: what you experienced is a top 1% thing. maybe us book dorks are just being manic depressive about this but i'm telling you this is my empirical experience, and one that seems corroborated by many others i was on the tennis team btw in HS. LJL i know.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753447) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 4:13 AM
Author: ...........,.,.,........
i'm not blaming the tribe. i think that the guys in Asia are doing ok.i'm blaming the Asian American guys for sitting on this problem and for those that suggest the problem doesn't exist. you're clearly an anomaly and i think that gives you bias in how you see things. if we took a poll of all asian american guys i'm almost certain the vast majority of them were not fucking green-eyed German chicks regularly in HS
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753452) |
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Date: January 9th, 2022 4:26 AM
Author: wangfei
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003498&forum_id=2#43753465) |
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